Animals Unfolded

There have been instances in my practice where, during a conversation, an individual who I’m providing pet loss & grief companioning support to expresses difficulty with all manner of issues not directly related to the distant, recent or anticipatory loss of their pet. It’s expected from time to time. And to some degree, it can be linked to the work we’re doing together. It’s often a fine line that I need to carefully consider & be honest with myself about, & so a little curiosity & reflective listening goes a long way. In some cases, its not blurry: the sticky wicket of something like the death of a human loved one, or maybe having a complicated relationship with a human loved one or experiencing conflicts in the workplace has clearly taken a place front & center for the pet guardian—which is actually a pretty common thing to happen when one is wading through the viscous territory of the grief surrounding pet loss, or feeling the effects heavy duty caregiving....

Pet health insurance is a topic that comes up at least a couple of times per week in my work, & that’s no surprise. After well over 20 years participating in various professional capacities adjacent to veterinary medicine, & now working with families as a Certified Animal Hospice Practitioner focused on senior & geriatric care, animal hospice & palliative care support for pets of any age, the involvement of vet care is common. And, of course I’m frequently liaising with other members of veterinary interdisciplinary teams, so I’m part of these conversations when families are moving through decision making.  I’ve made some interesting observations.  The first of which is that pet guardians understand that they can expect a better experience in meeting the changing needs of their pets, no matter the life stage or health status. That’s due to advances made in vet med, including testing & treatments that weren’t available even 10 years ago, a better understan...